Frequently Asked Questions

  • I'm so delighted you're here! Ways to make a fantastic impression with me before our date include:

    • Donating to a favorite charity in my honor.

    • Gifting me something from my wishlist.

    • Tipping me on CashApp for the admin work of screening and planning. (Email me asking how!)

    When we're together:

    • I value impeccable hygiene, discretion, kindness, and respect from you and reciprocate these at all times.

    • Sharing soulful connection and a meeting of the minds. I'm highly empathetic and a great listener, so know you're in a safe space with me! I expect to also feel safe in your presence at all times.

  • Our mutual health is of paramount importance to me, and I follow practices with our safety in mind.

    I keep up to date on all my flu vaccines and COVID-19 boosters, and take precautions/mask up when traveling.

    I am happy to take a COVID-19 test that you cover any additional cost for ahead of our date for your peace of mind.

  • I have a sophisticated, minimalistic sense of style and dress exquisitely for every occasion.

    I usually do not take outfit requests, however, if you'd like to see me in something specific, we can discuss you gifting it to me ahead of time.

    I also always welcome shopping trips together to pick something out that you love! (Plus then I can model it for you...)

  • I am a bisexual woman who very much enjoys the company of other people of all genders.

    If you are interested in a potential duo/trio+ with me and another companion, please note this in your booking form.

    For duos/trios+, patronage fees are matched to the highest rate of all participating providers.

    If you would like to introduce me to another provider(s) for a potential duo/trio+, I very much encourage this! Please note that the best way to do this is by connecting us yourself through initial contact, and sponsoring a FMTY trip or another way for us to get together so we can all enjoy one another's company.

  • I will happily provide an honest reference for you to other providers following our meeting.

    I typically allow 1-2 references per each time we meet, within one year of our most recent date. This ensures the most up-to-date information for safety and discretionary purposes.

    When you list me as a reference for other providers, please email me to let me know when and who I should expect to hear from. I will not release any reference information until I have your explicit approval to do so.

Policies and Etiquette

  • All patronage offerings require a 50 percent deposit ahead of time in order to secure your date. Once we agree on a date, I will provide you with the necessary information for sending the deposit, as well as a confirmation once it’s been received. At that point, consider our date confirmed and on my calendar.

    Please note that all deposits are nonrefundable.*

    (*Except in the rare event that I have to cancel our date and cannot reschedule for a time that works for both of us within the next two weeks—then you’ll receive a 100 percent refund, and my sincerest apologies. See my full cancellation/rescheduling policy below.)

  • I kindly request that my remaining patronage fees (after the deposit) be presented in cash* at the very beginning of our date, without my needing to mention or ask for it.

    If I am hosting, please place my fees in an unsealed envelope in plain sight, and excuse yourself to the bathroom shortly thereafter. If you are hosting, please leave the envelope on the bathroom counter before my arrival.

    If we meet in public, I ask that you please place the envelope in a card or gift bag and hand it to me immediately upon the start of our date.

    (*I may be able to offer additional methods of discreet electronic payment in full before or at the start of the date. Please inquire.)

  • If you request to reschedule our date with at least a week's notice, in most cases I am happy to apply your original deposit toward a newly rescheduled date of the same length or longer within one month of the original date. Applies to D.C./Phoenix + FMTY dates only; this does NOT include canceled tour dates.

    If you cancel our date 3 days before the scheduled time, you are responsible for 75 percent of the total patronage fees to be paid to me electronically for a short-notice cancellation.

    If you cancel our date 2 days or less before the scheduled time, you are responsible for 100 percent of the total patronage fees to be paid to me electronically for a severely short-notice cancellation.

    Those who do not send these aforementioned cancellation fees to me within 24 hours of their cancellation will not be able to reschedule with me and risk being listed as a financial liability to other providers.

  • Due to the nature of our special connection, reviews of any kind are strictly prohibited. I require that our time together is kept completely confidential at all times, publicly + privately as well as anywhere online.

    If this policy is violated in any way, shape, or form, you will be listed as a liability to other providers.

  • Recording/photographs of me or our time together are strictly prohibited at all times.

    Please do not breach this policy. Doing so may result in legal action.